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“Kind Eyes” of a Loving Person

Video: Kind Eyes – We are designed to Connect
Posted on December 21, 2011 by Authentic Presence in News
by Diane Poole Heller
SATe – Somatic Attachment Training & Experience

“Beam a Gleam!”
 A “gleam” or “Gleaming” is the word that describes the special look we send when we greet someone special to us! Imagine showing up at a friend’s house unexpectedly and they open the door and immediately show an authentic delight to see you there. That is a “Gleam Beam”! See the effect it can have by sending a “Gleam Beam” to your partner or child or even your pet across a crowed room  – at a party or schoolyard or anywhere! It is free and very effective to keep your innate secure attachment bond growing and strong!

Attachment Gaze is a critical way we feed and enhance our bond with those close to us. When you catch a beam Gleam from someone you love that tells you you are special to them and that that special look is just for you it opens our heart and gives us gourmet contact nutrition. Simply put, We feel loved and deeply connected. This happens in an ideal world. For some of us  – we looked out into the world as babies into the eyes of parents or caregivers that appeared lifeless, empty without presence, –  or even worse, hostile. This can shift our natural capacity and desire for eye contact away from others and we may grow up not even being aware that we avoid “I” (eye) contact because our original attempts were not met and became repeatedly painful. We learn to know ourselves in the reflection and eye contact of those closest to us. Without it we often disconnect and feel unknown to ourselves and with others which can be very isolating.

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